Dr. Chet Weld

“My mission in life is to attribute nobility to all people. Everyone has a personal quality that I admire."


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Dreams

Bird and Rainbow

“DREAMS”
by Langston Hughes

Hold onto dreams
For if dreams die
Life is like a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.

Hold fast to dreams
For when dreams go
Life is a barren field
Frozen with snow.

Sometimes Langston Hughes only wrote one word per day.  He took great care to craft each poem.  I know that I’m on year number seven in trying to write the last line of a song.  I took one year to wait on the Lord to find a melody for the verses of another song that would perfectly match the melody of the chorus.  Finally, inspiration provided that melody.

Similarly, God takes equal care in fashioning His image inside of us.  If you knew that you had a car that would last forever, you’d replace every worn part with something made of a metal that isn’t likely to perish for seemingly endless years.  God works like that with us.  Every detail of our lives is worth God’s careful inspection and perfection.  No matter how long it takes.  Even with the smallest of details, e.g., taking sarcasm out of our communications, learning to slow down, or learning to accept the imperfections of ourself and others.

The next time we wonder where God is, it may be best to NOT trust our emotions to tell us if God is with us.  God promises to never leave us or forsake us.  Christ didn’t die on the cross for “dear occupant.”  He died for each of us and He’s intimately involved with every detail of our personal growth.

I think that dreaming is for folks who are brave enough to endure those times when there seems to be no hope that the dreams will be fulfilled.  Better to know God and to know His joy and peace than to have any dream fulfilled.  He knows our hearts and He promises that “no good thing will he withhold from them that walk uprightly” (Psalm 84:11).  No wonder the bible says four times that we “walk by faith and not by sight.”

Ideas taken from: “Marriage Forecasting: Changing the Climate of Your Relationship One Conversation at a Time,” by Muehlhoff & Allender. 

Broken Winged Bird 

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The Lake Wobegon Effect

Lake Wobegon

Do you suffer from the Lake Wobegon effect?  Most of us do!

Many of you have heard of the fictional Lake Wobegon, Minnesota.  Humorist Garrison Keillor reports the news from Lake Wobegon on his traveling show “A Prairie Home Companion.”  In Lake Wobegon, “all the women are strong, the men are good looking, and the children are above average.”

Apparently, medical doctors suffer from the “Lake Wobegon effect.”  In a study from the University of Wisconsin, “the vast majority of surgeons believed the mortality rate for their own patients to be lower than the average” (“Complications,” by Atul Gawande).  Another study concluded that there’s no connection between accuracy and the confidence of physicians’ judgments.

Rather than indict physicians (to whom I actually owe my life), the larger picture is that “human judgment, like memory and hearing, is prone to systematic mistakes.  The mind overestimates vivid dangers, falls into ruts, and manages multiple pieces of data poorly.  It is swayed unduly by desire and emotion and even the time of day.  It is affected by the order in which information is presented and how problems are framed” (Gawande).  Basically, the point of Gawande’s book is the reality of human uncertainty and fallibility.  He also makes the point that there is no escape for physicians from trusting their judgment – in the absence of data or, at times, even in the face of data that would dictate an opposite course of action.

Gawande took a microscope to the medical profession.  I think that God takes a microscope to all of our lives, and I’m grateful for His grace.

We all do well to heed the words of Romans 12:3-4: “For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you.”  Part of our “human predicament” in this life is that we “see through a glass darkly” or “but a poor reflection as in a mirror” (1 Corinthians 13:12).  Fortunately, there is benefit from imitating another surgeon, Dr. Ben Carson, who prays over all medical decisions and throughout every surgery (see “Gifted Hands,” by Ben Carson).

I highly recommend both “Complications: A Surgeon’s Notes on an Imperfect Science,” by Atul Gawande and Ben Carson’s “Gifted Hands.”

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Showdown at Walgreens

Dove of Peace

Someone said, “If a bullet doesn’t have your name on it, get out of the way!”  That’s an expression that agrees with scripture and here’s a good example:

I had just entered Walgreens and a woman was shouting at two employees.  The employees simply listened and tried to explain something to her.  I didn’t know what the argument was about (although the woman was the only one who was arguing), but my first instinct was to get involved and help bring peace.  At that moment, this scripture occurred to me:  “Like one who seizes a dog by the ears is a passer-by who meddles in a quarrel not his own” (Proverbs 26:17).

I decided to hang out for awhile and when the argument didn’t stop, I simply made my purchase and left.

My wife and I call Walgreens “The Greens,” and we joke about turning a trip to The Greens into a date.  After all, who knows what adventures may transpire while looking for dental floss or picking up a prescription?  If my church does as good a job at affirming visitors as do the employees at The Greens, we’ll be doing our job to help connect people with the living God.

On a subsequent visit to The Greens, I asked a cashier about the woman who had been hollering.  The cashier said that the woman occasionally comes in the store and finds some excuse to harangue the employees.  The Walgreens folks are used to it.  They do their best to make her happy.  They never succeed, but they don’t take the irregular behavior personally.

I believe that God’s spirit brought that scripture to my mind at the right time.  Proverbs is a resource for wisdom in many situations.  Storing up scriptures in our heart not only gives us wisdom, however, but changes us.  1 Thessalonians 2:13 says that the word of God “effectively works in those who believe.”  I hope that God is continually working in me so that I can hear His voice more often – even at The Greens!

 


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I Had the Meanest Mother in the World

Mothers-Day

I had the meanest mother in the world.  While other kids had candy for breakfast, I had to eat cereal, eggs, and toast.  While other kids had cake and candy for lunch, I had a sandwich.  As you can guess, my dinner was also different from other kids’ dinners.  And my mother insisted on knowing where we were at all times.  She even had to know who our friends were and what we were doing!

I was ashamed to admit it, but my mother actually had the nerve to break the child labor law.  She made us work!  We had to wash dishes, make the beds, and learn how to cook.  That woman must have stayed awake nights thinking up things for us kids to do.  And she insisted that we tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.  She was definitely uptight.

By the time we became teenagers, our lives became yet more unbearable.  When friends came over, none of this tooting the car horn for us to come running.  She embarrassed us to end by insisting that our friends come to the door to get us.

I forgot to mention that most of our friends were allowed to date at the mature age of 12 or 13, but our old fashioned mother refused to let us date until we were 16.  She really raised a bunch of squares and you can bet our friends laughed at us.  And another thing:  Unlike all the cool kids, none of us were ever arrested for shoplifting or busted for dope.  And who did we have to thank for this?  You’re right: Our mean mother!

Well, now I’m trying to raise my children to stand a little straighter and taller, and I am secretly tickled to pieces when my children call me “mean.”  I thank God for giving me the meanest mother in the world.  The world needs more mean mothers like mine!

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Note: If you read the biography of Dr. Ben Carson, you’ll find that much of his book is about his mother.  Dr. Carson grew up in a ghetto and was at the bottom of his fifth grade class.  Then his mother “laid down the law” and ordered that Ben and his brother, Curtis, could watch only three t.v. shows per week.  These two kids were at their wits’ end!  Also, she demanded that they read two books a week and turn a book report into her for review (and she could hardly read at the time).  This was the turning point of Dr. Carson’s life.  At 33 he became the Chief of Pediatric Neurosurgery at John Hopkins University Hospital.  He was also the first one to successfully separate Siamese twins joined at the head.  He perfected “hemispherectomies,” which means the removal of one half of the brain in patients who have constant, life-threatening seizures (the other half of the brain takes over the functions of the removed half, especially in babies, but with some minor permanent side effects).  Dr. Carson even removed tumors from the brain stem that most surgeons won’t touch.  Dr. Carson recently spoke at the National Prayer Breakfast, and our president sat two seats away from the podium.  Dr. Carson spoke against socialism and praised the importance of rewarding initiative and hard work.  I recommend his biography, “Gifted Hands,” and the movie by the same name, starring Cuba Gooding. Dr. Carson is a role model for us all….because he had the meanest mother in the world!


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Amazing Facts about the Brain!

Brain Capicity

There’s no end to what we can learn about the brain.  Check out this now basic information:

“The brain has the storage capacity of 6 million years of the Wall Street Journal” (Greg Iles, quoted in “A Better Brain at Any Age”).

An online article gives similar information: “For comparison, if your brain worked like a digital video recorder in a television, 2.5 petabytes would be enough to hold three million hours of TV shows. You would have to leave the TV running continuously for more than 300 years to use up all that storage.”

http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=what-is-the-memory-capacity

A few other amazing facts about the amazing brain that God created:

How much does the average brain weigh?  3 lbs.

Most of the brain’s cells are formed before birth, but most of the connections among cells are made during infancy and early childhood.

When does the brain reach full size? Age 6…As a child grows, the number of cells remains stable, but the cells grow in size.

The brain is made up of about 75% water.

Your brain consists of about 100 billion neurons.

There are from 1,000 to 10,000 synapses (gaps where neurotransmitters and electricity are exchange) for each neuron.

At what age is the brain fully mature?  Age 25

There are no pain receptors in the brain.

There are 100,000 miles of blood vessels in the brain.

About 70% of visits to the doctor for physical ailments are attributed to psychological factors.

Every time you recall a memory or have a new thought, you are creating a new connection in your brain.  The brain is always changing itself!

Stronger, more intense emotional connections are linked to memories prompted by scent.

It’s not true that humans only use 10% of their brains; each part of the brain has a purpose.

When you sleep, you’re virtually paralyzed because your brain creates a hormone to prevent you from acting out your dreams.

Sleep may be the best time for your brain to consolidate (file away) all your memories from the day.  Lack of sleep may hurt your ability to create new memories.

Memory is formed by associations, so if you want help remembering things, create associations for yourself.

Our brain generates 20-25 watts of power continually and uses 20% of the body’s total energy.

Note: I’m also amazed at what neuroscientists don’t know about the brain, e.g., how information is initially encoded; how pieces of information about single objects or specific information that is “splattered” throughout the brain “binds” together so that we see and understand things as a whole (“binding”); what produces consciousness (most neuroscientists think that the brain produces it, but Dr. Alexander who wrote “Proof of Heaven” thinks that God produces it); and how we’re able to drink a glass of water (to name a few things)!  Throughout eternity we will never plumb the depths of the wisdom and knowledge of God.  But when I see Him face to face, I hope He’ll at least answer the above questions!

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Boon or Boondoggle? Don’t Be Scammed!

Scammer

I received a message from a Facebook friend that said he was stranded at the London Heathrow Airport.  He was penniless and needed more money to get back to the states.  “Could I help?” he asked.

I responded that I would be praying for him, but that I couldn’t help him financially.  I felt good about my decision.  I didn’t have any money to send him and I didn’t have a good feeling about his request.  I rarely communicated with him, I didn’t know he had gone to England, and most people in need turn to good friends, family, their church, or immediate social circle.

Well, as it turned out, my friend’s Facebook account had been hacked.  Someone was using his account to make the same request of many people and this deceiver hoped to shear as many sheep as possible.  That hacker tried to boondoggle me!

I remember receiving an email from “Barrister George Newton Esq” from the “UK.”  Wow!  The subject line read, “THIS IS MY THIRD AND FINAL EMAIL TO YOU.”  The email was impressively signed, “Yours in Service, Barrister George Newton & Associates (Esq) Executors and Advocates UNITED KINGDOM CROWN COURT.  PRINCIPAL PARTNERS: Barrister Aidan Walsh.Esq, Markus Wolfgang, Mr. John Marvey Esq, Mr. Jerry Smith Esq.”

Apparently, I had been willed a sum of 30 million dollars.  Previous emails from other people also indicated that large sums of inheritance awaited me through a simple transfer of funds into my account.  In order to receive the money, I had to send a mere $500 or so to enable the transaction.  Gosh, with all this money waiting for me, I could buy at least a castle or two!

Then there’s the “missionary” in Spain who needs a loan of $2,500 to help with her sister’s hysterectomy; there are all kinds of “Esqs” who need help with wire transfers of millions of dollars (and they need your account numbers, too); there’s the “Apostle Sister Elizabeth Sinbi” who’s dying of cancer, but somehow has 2.5 million she wants me to inherit after her death from cancer.  I only have to help her financially before she dies.  With all of these folks, “it’s the same circus, different clowns.”

I’d like to ask some of these masked bandits, “Isn’t there enough heartache in the world without adding more hurt?”  I know several people at a church in mid-Tucson who were scammed out of tens of thousands of dollars by a wolf in sheep’s clothing.  From Internet cafes around the world, the scammers want your savings, your next mortgage payment, your child’s college fund, and anything they can get their hands on.

Bottom line: “He shall know the truth by his reverence for the Lord” (Isaiah 11:3 in the Jewish bible, the Tanakh).  Also, Christ said to be “wise as serpents and innocent as doves” (Matthew 10:16).  As we are truly disciples of Christ, He gives us wisdom.  I’ll write a blog soon on an overall plan to acquire insight for dealing with less obvious scams and for navigating other of life’s difficulties.

What are some of the creative ways in which people have tried to scam you?  How did you handle their deceit?

 

 

 

 

 


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Do You Hear Hoof Beats?

Hoofbeats
“If you hear hoof beats in Texas, think horses, not zebras” (from “Complications: A Surgeons Notes on an Imperfect Science,” by Atul Gawande, M.D.).

Sometimes it’s best to trust our intuition, defying traditional wisdom. If we think that we’re seeing something that others aren’t seeing, it’s often best to act on that insight. Or if we’re feeling a nudge from God to move in a particular direction or to address a particular situation, that’s often the route to go. Life is filled with risk.

If Dr. Atul Gawande hadn’t trusted his intuition that a young lady may have a flesh eating disease in her leg that would have killed her quickly, he would not have operated and saved this young person’s leg and life. Almost any other doctor would have treated her for cellulitis and sent her home (which in fact a few doctors had already done), rather than take her to surgery to search for the very rare killer called necrotizing fasciitis. In the imperfect art of medicine, as with all disciplines, we rarely know anything with certainty. Mark Twain said, “Apparently, there is nothing that cannot happen.” Dr. Gawande heard hoof beats in Texas, and he thought “horses.”

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he shall direct your paths” (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Zebras